On this site, I have avoided the temptation to give any parenting advice for various reasons.
The primary one is that this site is, first and foremost, a daily journal for my son to read when he's older, a way for him to re-live memories that he may no longer have access to within the cluttered confines of his brain.
The second reason is the fact that I am no expert on parenting myself and I will readily admit that. I would feel rather obnoxious to sit here and pontificate on various subjects regarding discipline or what-not while, in the background, my son is busy painting his face with Dry-Erase markers.
However, it did dawn on me the other day that Lil Sippy Cup may have children of his own in the future and that he might come to me seeking professional counsel. Along with this, I imagine that some people who visit this site may have plans to have children of their own as well and maybe a little friendly advice would not be such a bad thing to dispense.
You see, the entire "parenting industry" is a multi-billion dollar enterprise full of "experts", "experts" who prey on the fear and insecurities of new parents and seasoned parents as well. However, the reality is that parenting is a learned skill. It is a skill that requires patience, hard-work and a ton of practice. The only "experts", in my opinion, are good parents. I am more likely to listen to my grandmother's advice (who is a mother of 9) than I am to a talk-show guest. And my grandmother is over 90 years-old and semi-senile.
All of this just serves as a background to a new set of posts which I plan to write titled "Field Reports". They will be personal experiences that I have had with the little dude and the subsequent lessons I learned. I will not create a "How-To" Guide for new parents because parenting is a one-to-one, one-of-a-kind experience. Every parent is different, every child will require a new skill set and there is no universal experience when it comes to parenting. There are, however, universal emotions: things like paralyzing fear, utter frustration and, most importantly, inexplicable and never-ending love.
I have experienced each of these emotions in my journey to become the best man and father I can possibly be for Lil Sippy Cup. Hopefully, you will be able to learn something along the way as well.
2 comments:
can't wait man! great stuff as always...
Great idea love your parenting and your love for your son.
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